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		<title>By: bean</title>
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		<dc:creator>bean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Oct 2008 00:48:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>1. love the tigger reference.
2. chiming in late, and i missed some of the comments above. so i hope these comments on &quot;3rd wave feminism&quot; are relevant and at least a little interesting:

my understanding is that the &quot;third wave&quot; movement started when Alice Walker&#039;s daughter Rebecca Walker graduated from Princeton (about 12 years ago?), realized like so many college students that she had no job skills, and so formed the organization Third Wave, which she was the president of.  She had the resources to do it. (Then came _Bitch_ and _Bust_. Et, voila, a new &quot;movement!&quot;) http://www.thirdwavefoundation.org/

I heard her speak right around that time, and was really pretty offended by the presentation. (to be fair, i haven&#039;t read her books, and probably should...)

Having not been around at the time of the suffragists, i pretty much understood through the 80&#039;s that my feminist theory and activism followed, historically the 2nd wave women&#039;s movement of the 60&#039;s and 70&#039;s.  As a women&#039;s studies student in college, i came to realize that there was no one movement; there were MANY strains of this movement, and the women in it descended from a variety of very different movements and life experiences.

some liberal white feminists did descend from the disgruntled housewives that Betty Friedan described, and from the ensuing CR groups, and worked for things like equal pay for equal work and getting more women into elected office.

many liberal and radical feminists descended directly from their frustrations with the white-boy new left.  they wanted men to stop being violent rapist sexist asholes and they wanted birth control and abortion.

some of those women turned out to be lesbians.  some wanted to be lesbians. lesbian movements formed from those strains as well as from the women who had been lesbians all along in their own gay/queer subcultures. there were tensions...

some women descended directly from the civil rights and black liberation movements. in the late seventies and eighties especially, there was an explosion of writing, theory and activism among feminist women of color. This lead to activism and writing by various other groups of women of color, as well as jewish women, and to discussions and debates about what disparagingly came to be called &quot;identity politics.&quot;

Of course, there were always women of color and lesbians scattered through all these different movements. But, i think that when we say &quot;second wave feminists&quot; the image most people get are white women, maybe former housewives, or maybe bra-burning students and/or young women with very liberal politics. (including Rebecca Walker, who honestly should know better, having had the direct experience of having for a mother a very important feminist woman of color!) I&#039;m trying to say that there were women with very radical politics that were a very important part of the second wave movement, and many (or most?) of those women were women of color and/or lesbians.

So, when rebecca walker came along to tell us that we needed a new movement, a third wave movement because the second wave was racist white women, was simultaneously homophobic and man-hating, and was sex-negative, and that the third wave was going to appeal to younger women and men because, well it would be more fun and more sexy, more &quot;black and white together,&quot; more &quot;gay and straight together,&quot; more &quot;can&#039;t we all just get along?&quot;... well, i kinda lost it.

i mean, i don&#039;t want to gloss over the racist mistakes that some strains of the white feminist movements did make.  we made &#039;em, but we&#039;ve also been accountable for &#039;em, at least, some of us have tried to be.  But whatever, who cared about us, when there were women like Audre Lorde in the world? I think the biggest disaster will be if the &quot;third wave&quot; can&#039;t be bothered to notice the work of Audre Lorde, and Crystos, and June Jordan, and Gloria Anzaldua, etc.

so, that&#039;s the framework that i use to understand feminist movement.  i hope it&#039;s not too historically inaccurate or offensive or racist.  i&#039;d love to hear thoughts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1. love the tigger reference.<br />
2. chiming in late, and i missed some of the comments above. so i hope these comments on &#8220;3rd wave feminism&#8221; are relevant and at least a little interesting:</p>
<p>my understanding is that the &#8220;third wave&#8221; movement started when Alice Walker&#8217;s daughter Rebecca Walker graduated from Princeton (about 12 years ago?), realized like so many college students that she had no job skills, and so formed the organization Third Wave, which she was the president of.  She had the resources to do it. (Then came _Bitch_ and _Bust_. Et, voila, a new &#8220;movement!&#8221;) <a href="http://www.thirdwavefoundation.org/" rel="nofollow">http://www.thirdwavefoundation.org/</a></p>
<p>I heard her speak right around that time, and was really pretty offended by the presentation. (to be fair, i haven&#8217;t read her books, and probably should&#8230;)</p>
<p>Having not been around at the time of the suffragists, i pretty much understood through the 80&#8217;s that my feminist theory and activism followed, historically the 2nd wave women&#8217;s movement of the 60&#8217;s and 70&#8217;s.  As a women&#8217;s studies student in college, i came to realize that there was no one movement; there were MANY strains of this movement, and the women in it descended from a variety of very different movements and life experiences.</p>
<p>some liberal white feminists did descend from the disgruntled housewives that Betty Friedan described, and from the ensuing CR groups, and worked for things like equal pay for equal work and getting more women into elected office.</p>
<p>many liberal and radical feminists descended directly from their frustrations with the white-boy new left.  they wanted men to stop being violent rapist sexist asholes and they wanted birth control and abortion.</p>
<p>some of those women turned out to be lesbians.  some wanted to be lesbians. lesbian movements formed from those strains as well as from the women who had been lesbians all along in their own gay/queer subcultures. there were tensions&#8230;</p>
<p>some women descended directly from the civil rights and black liberation movements. in the late seventies and eighties especially, there was an explosion of writing, theory and activism among feminist women of color. This lead to activism and writing by various other groups of women of color, as well as jewish women, and to discussions and debates about what disparagingly came to be called &#8220;identity politics.&#8221;</p>
<p>Of course, there were always women of color and lesbians scattered through all these different movements. But, i think that when we say &#8220;second wave feminists&#8221; the image most people get are white women, maybe former housewives, or maybe bra-burning students and/or young women with very liberal politics. (including Rebecca Walker, who honestly should know better, having had the direct experience of having for a mother a very important feminist woman of color!) I&#8217;m trying to say that there were women with very radical politics that were a very important part of the second wave movement, and many (or most?) of those women were women of color and/or lesbians.</p>
<p>So, when rebecca walker came along to tell us that we needed a new movement, a third wave movement because the second wave was racist white women, was simultaneously homophobic and man-hating, and was sex-negative, and that the third wave was going to appeal to younger women and men because, well it would be more fun and more sexy, more &#8220;black and white together,&#8221; more &#8220;gay and straight together,&#8221; more &#8220;can&#8217;t we all just get along?&#8221;&#8230; well, i kinda lost it.</p>
<p>i mean, i don&#8217;t want to gloss over the racist mistakes that some strains of the white feminist movements did make.  we made &#8216;em, but we&#8217;ve also been accountable for &#8216;em, at least, some of us have tried to be.  But whatever, who cared about us, when there were women like Audre Lorde in the world? I think the biggest disaster will be if the &#8220;third wave&#8221; can&#8217;t be bothered to notice the work of Audre Lorde, and Crystos, and June Jordan, and Gloria Anzaldua, etc.</p>
<p>so, that&#8217;s the framework that i use to understand feminist movement.  i hope it&#8217;s not too historically inaccurate or offensive or racist.  i&#8217;d love to hear thoughts.</p>
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		<title>By: DeLandDeLakes</title>
		<link>http://dykestowatchoutfor.com/fire#comment-283980</link>
		<dc:creator>DeLandDeLakes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Oct 2008 15:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Arguing with people you agree with- thath&#039; what feminiths do betht!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Arguing with people you agree with- thath&#8217; what feminiths do betht!</p>
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		<title>By: Ready2Agitate</title>
		<link>http://dykestowatchoutfor.com/fire#comment-283177</link>
		<dc:creator>Ready2Agitate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Oct 2008 00:31:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Aw shucks, feminists, can&#039;t we all just get along?  

I think I get Ginjoint, and even if I don&#039;t, am familiar enough w her politics that I wouldn&#039;t question her calling another woman on this blog a cutie-pie.

But I also think I get Freyakat.  The comment taken out of context - e.g. said patronizingly by someone with more power - would be completely irritating!  Hone that righteous indignation, sister - when aimed wisely, I like it I like it!

OK, so, Eliza, what was the response to yr question abt State by State and patriotism?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aw shucks, feminists, can&#8217;t we all just get along?  </p>
<p>I think I get Ginjoint, and even if I don&#8217;t, am familiar enough w her politics that I wouldn&#8217;t question her calling another woman on this blog a cutie-pie.</p>
<p>But I also think I get Freyakat.  The comment taken out of context &#8211; e.g. said patronizingly by someone with more power &#8211; would be completely irritating!  Hone that righteous indignation, sister &#8211; when aimed wisely, I like it I like it!</p>
<p>OK, so, Eliza, what was the response to yr question abt State by State and patriotism?</p>
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		<title>By: Kassie</title>
		<link>http://dykestowatchoutfor.com/fire#comment-282696</link>
		<dc:creator>Kassie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2008 14:11:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can change the subject in a very minor but fun way...just saw Mike Leigh&#039;s new movie, &quot;Happy Go Lucky,&quot; and in the first scene, set in a London bookstore, you can see AB&#039;s &quot;Dykes to Watch Out For&quot; paperback!  I started hooting, &quot;Look!  Dykes!!&quot; and got shushed by a disgruntled patron behind me.  Anyway, if you see this film, watch for it...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can change the subject in a very minor but fun way&#8230;just saw Mike Leigh&#8217;s new movie, &#8220;Happy Go Lucky,&#8221; and in the first scene, set in a London bookstore, you can see AB&#8217;s &#8220;Dykes to Watch Out For&#8221; paperback!  I started hooting, &#8220;Look!  Dykes!!&#8221; and got shushed by a disgruntled patron behind me.  Anyway, if you see this film, watch for it&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Dr. Empirical</title>
		<link>http://dykestowatchoutfor.com/fire#comment-282672</link>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Empirical</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2008 13:37:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It always amazes me what people will find to be offended by.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It always amazes me what people will find to be offended by.</p>
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		<title>By: Ginjoint</title>
		<link>http://dykestowatchoutfor.com/fire#comment-282250</link>
		<dc:creator>Ginjoint</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2008 04:55:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow. I guess I should chime in here. Thanks to those above who explained my tone, which as they noted, was meant to be both playful and a nod to my picture (decloaking, if you will) in Alison&#039;s last post. I was under the impression that we were friends here who could gently tease and, Goddess help us all, use diminutives with each other. Also, I know how nice it felt to me to have others say sweet things about how I looked (given the year I&#039;ve had), and I really wanted her to feel the same thing. If I offended &lt;i&gt;the woman in the photograph&lt;/i&gt;, I sincerely apologize. That is as far as my apology will go.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow. I guess I should chime in here. Thanks to those above who explained my tone, which as they noted, was meant to be both playful and a nod to my picture (decloaking, if you will) in Alison&#8217;s last post. I was under the impression that we were friends here who could gently tease and, Goddess help us all, use diminutives with each other. Also, I know how nice it felt to me to have others say sweet things about how I looked (given the year I&#8217;ve had), and I really wanted her to feel the same thing. If I offended <i>the woman in the photograph</i>, I sincerely apologize. That is as far as my apology will go.</p>
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		<title>By: DeLandDeLakes</title>
		<link>http://dykestowatchoutfor.com/fire#comment-282161</link>
		<dc:creator>DeLandDeLakes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2008 03:13:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, and Freyakat, chill the hell out. Affectionate diminutives are not hate speech, and they sure as hell aren&#039;t going anywhere, as long as the American South still exists. Save your battles.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, and Freyakat, chill the hell out. Affectionate diminutives are not hate speech, and they sure as hell aren&#8217;t going anywhere, as long as the American South still exists. Save your battles.</p>
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		<title>By: DeLandDeLakes</title>
		<link>http://dykestowatchoutfor.com/fire#comment-282156</link>
		<dc:creator>DeLandDeLakes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2008 03:11:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m 26, which I guess would make me part of the &quot;third wave.&quot; But damn, I look back and I am way jealous of the second-wavers in a lot of ways. I&#039;m in the generation of chastity pledges and Bust and Bitch magazine, which seem to have nothing better to do but blither about fashion and video games while Roe vs. Wade gets slowly killed....what I wouldn&#039;t give to have &quot;Free abortion on demand&quot; be part of the feminist agenda again, and to generally get back to the attitude that sex is fun and positive.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m 26, which I guess would make me part of the &#8220;third wave.&#8221; But damn, I look back and I am way jealous of the second-wavers in a lot of ways. I&#8217;m in the generation of chastity pledges and Bust and Bitch magazine, which seem to have nothing better to do but blither about fashion and video games while Roe vs. Wade gets slowly killed&#8230;.what I wouldn&#8217;t give to have &#8220;Free abortion on demand&#8221; be part of the feminist agenda again, and to generally get back to the attitude that sex is fun and positive.</p>
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		<title>By: Public Health Vet</title>
		<link>http://dykestowatchoutfor.com/fire#comment-282086</link>
		<dc:creator>Public Health Vet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2008 01:41:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with Ellen O.  I&#039;m a third generation feminist (wait, what wave does that make me? :) ) and I wouldn&#039;t think twice if another woman said &quot;fess up, cutie pie&quot; to me as long as she wasn&#039;t my co-worker.  But I would be annoyed if someone else started policing others&#039; comments rather than letting me handle them myself... which I could do, even if I wanted my photo to remain anonymous.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with Ellen O.  I&#8217;m a third generation feminist (wait, what wave does that make me? <img src='http://dykestowatchoutfor.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  ) and I wouldn&#8217;t think twice if another woman said &#8220;fess up, cutie pie&#8221; to me as long as she wasn&#8217;t my co-worker.  But I would be annoyed if someone else started policing others&#8217; comments rather than letting me handle them myself&#8230; which I could do, even if I wanted my photo to remain anonymous.</p>
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		<title>By: Boyles</title>
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		<dc:creator>Boyles</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2008 01:31:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Gaaahhhhhhhhh I am a Cambridge-Dwelling, Brattle-LOVING, Bechdel-Super-Fan who somehow COMPLETELY missed that this event was taking place!!!!! 

Ok I just have to explain to the universe (via this blog)that this turn of events is NO. FAIR.  

And now I will attempt to move on...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gaaahhhhhhhhh I am a Cambridge-Dwelling, Brattle-LOVING, Bechdel-Super-Fan who somehow COMPLETELY missed that this event was taking place!!!!! </p>
<p>Ok I just have to explain to the universe (via this blog)that this turn of events is NO. FAIR.  </p>
<p>And now I will attempt to move on&#8230;</p>
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